I was first introduced to the cuckold lifestyle while in a chatroom on AOL. For some reason I received an instant message from one of the people in the chat room. He told me he was from Philadelphia, a cuckold bull which at that time I knew nothing about and we started talking. He told me about his fucking wives while their husbands watched but were not allowed to participate only film or watch. I had had a good life as a swinger but not quite as much success with the BDSM lifestyle, I read his messages very intrigued as he told of some of his experiences. As a swinger I had fucked the wife or g/f present but no restrictions of participation were discussed. I was told by my mentor that the Bull is the head of the bedroom hierarchy, the female is next and the cuck is at the bottom of the totem pole. He explained to me that a Bull is there for one thing and one thing only and that is to be bullish, in charge yet under control when you are in control. A Bull should never have to ask for what should be given, He said to always expect her to give you every ounce of her womanhood and for the cuck to know that the man fucking his wife is the real man in his bedroom. He told me that if you couldn’t have that mind set and not expect those two things then what you are doing is swinging because in cuckolding it will always be the Bull making another man’s married wife his hot wife. As I learned from this Bull Master I also discovered the word Hedonist.  The more I read about this the more I discovered my true self. I was being pulled in two directions one dealing with control and the other increasing my knowledge of my pursuit of pleasure. My online evolution began in the early 2000’s when dial up was king. The chat rooms were the online night clubs of most evenings. One of the most request from the women when I received instant messages from them was can you fuck my mind as well as my body. The way I personally learned to make love to a woman’s mind was phone sex, I actually have received more than a few thank you notes because the phone sex we shared saved their marriage.  This is when I learned that as a Bull your role is to provide the physical as well as the mental and the state of their marriage is also very important. The whole trilogy of bull, wife, and cuck is one unit understanding their roles so that is  benefitting to three. I truly believe that what is done by consenting adults is permissible and if all of what is done during that consent is done willingly to me that makes it respectable. I am excited for this is my very first blog. I do want those who are either participants or those with an interest in cuckolding to get  to know me and why I am the Bull I am. I am a Bull Daddy, an older, and wiser bull, with a lot of pumps still left inside of me and a composer of intimacy. I try to connect to both cuck and wife for an experience that will last with both. I will continue telling my thoughts from my mind as a Cuckold Daddy Bull.